Motion

Love is not a feeling, it's a motion. It drives you away from your comfort zone. It creates this very unique sensation that everything we do is worthy, like a powerful drug. Of course it hurts, of course it feels better than ever sometimes.

But at the end of the day, it makes you move and that's what matters. Maybe today I'll burst in tears and maybe tomorrow I will be shaking badly in the middle of the street, but that is not the point. The point is that love aims to make you change. It forces you to act, whether it's for the best or the worst. My whole life, I have never been big on party, never really enjoyed drinking, pretending to be happy surrounded by other drunk idiots. And then, suddenly, in the very beginning of what I expected to be "yet another year", I surprised myself going out every evening. This is what love is about.

And even in the worst moment, when your heart is in pieces, it is nothing but a motion. You will change whatever you do. Refrain it and you will adapt slower: it will hurt even more. Push it and will face your own reality: you're not ready yet. Love is about that, this perfect balance between what you need to lose and what you have to learn. It is about letting go some part of us and accepting that it is necessary.

Whenever you say to someone that you love him/her, you mean that you can assume those changes, the consequences induces by the relationship. And it's when you try to get out of this relationship that you change the most. Every lover in tears, every broken heart, is ultimately nothing else but a bourgeoning soul.

Yes it might be hard. Yes it will hurt. But keep in mind what you're doing and why you're doing it. There's no easy way, just the one you'll take. Meanwhile, I will love and cherish every wish, every feelings and every moment. Because love is motion, but life is a dance. And what could be more beautiful than two people dancing when no music is playing, when it's just them two, driven by what they feel, when each step means "I love you" ?